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Child protection policy 2024 policy guidelines and Procedures on child sateguarding and protection

Studio Legale Miraglia has developed this Child Protection Policy to ensure the highest standards of professional conduct and personal practice in situations involving children. More specifically, this policy includes measures concerning recruitment procedures, management structures, staff training, and development of protocols.
1. DEFINITIONS
For the purposes of the present policy, the following definitions apply:
• A child is every human being below the age of eighteen years old, as defined by the UN – Convention of the Rights of the Child.
For the purpose of this policy we use child/children and minors interchangeably.
• Protecting a child means preventing and responding to violence, exploitation and abuse of children in all contexts.
Protecting a child entails analyzing the child’s unique personal context, situation and needs on a case-to-case basis.
• Child participation means that any person under the age of 18 can freely express their views, to be heard and to contribute to the decision-making process. Their views must be given due weight in accordance with the individual’s age and maturity.

• Staff members are all paid staff, volunteers, interns and external collaborators.

• Child maltreatment refers to the abuse and neglect that occurs to children under 18 years old. This includes all types of physical and/or emotional ill-treatment, sexual abuse, neglect, negligence, and any form of exploitation that threatens to harm or jeopardizes the child’s health, survival, development and dignity.
2. PRINCIPLES AND VALUES
Studio Legale Miraglia is committed to the following values and principles, which should be respected and promoted by all its staff members:
• it values and treats every person without discrimination of any kind, irrespective of their age, sex, language, religion, political or other opinions, and national, ethnic or social origin and status;
• it has a zero-tolerance policy towards any kind of inappropriate behaviour, violence or abuse including towards children;
• it recognizes the right of every child to be protected from any harm and abuse;
• it promotes the right of children to be heard and share their views regarding matters which affect them.
3. SCREENING AND HIRING PRACTICES
Studio Legale Miraglia is committed to sustaining rigorous hiring and selection practices, including reference checks, criminal background checks and social security checks.
Prospective staff members will be interviewed to make sure that they meet the requirements, and they will be required to sign the organization’s Code of Conduct and Child Protection Policy once they obtain the job.
4. PRINCIPLES OF CONDUCT AND PROCEDURES OF STAFF IN CONTACT/WORKING WITH CHILDREN
4.1. The following principles apply when working with children:
• compliance with Studio Legale Miraglia’s Code of Conduct and Child Protection Policy.
As previously mentioned, before performing any work duties, staff members will sign and date a copy of the Code of Conduct, to which the Child Protection Policy is annexed. If changes or updates are made, all staff members will be provided with the new version, which must be signed in acknowledgement and acceptance.
• All external collaborators will be provided with the Child Protection Policy and the Code of Conduct if they work with children younger than 18 years of age.
• The Code of Conduct includes the procedures for data collection and treatment of data regarding children and young people. Data privacy and protection issues shall comply with relevant EU rules (especially the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) (EU) 2016/679.
• If personal data about minors needs to be collected, written informed consent will be sought from their parents/legal guardians.
• Staff who may come in contact with the personal data of research participants is required to sign a declaration of confidentiality before engaging in research.
• Written informed consent of the parents/legal guardians shall be specifically sought if disclosing information regarding a minor. This includes disclosing any type of information (including images) regarding a minor. Acquired images and data are stored on the local server of Studio Legale Miraglia and are accessible only by the staff who have the specific credentials and who have signed the Code of Conduct.
• All publications must comply with the Child Protection Policy before being publicized or shared.
4.2. Training on child protection
The Child Protection Policy will be shared with each new staff member and will be regularly reinforced and updated. More specifically,
• all paid staff, volunteers and interns will participate in a comprehensive child protection training and in further training throughout their employment period;
• external collaborators who may come in contact with children will participate in the same child protection training.
All staff members and external collaborators have an obligation to report any child abuse concerns they may have or suspect both within the organization or in an external context.
5. DECLARATION
By submitting this report, the subject declares that:
• He/she is aware that this report could be used an official statement, should the report give rise to legal action on behalf of Studio Legale Miraglia;
• He/she is in good faith and that all the information provided above is correct and truthful;
• He/she is aware that providing false accusations against someone is a breach punishable by Italian law.
The reporting subject
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Cassino: processo per il capo dei servizi sociali e per l’assistente sociale per violenza privata e abuso d’ufficio

avevano tolto due ragazzine alla zia, cui erano affidate, solo per ripicca.

CASSINO (08.02.2024). Imputazione coatta per due reati gravi: violenza privata e abuso d’ufficio. Il giudice per le indagini preliminari ha disposto l’imputazione coatta per due membri dei servizi sociali di Cassino. Il pubblico ministero aveva richiesto l’archiviazione, ma il gip ha ritenuto che per questi due reati ci fossero delle prove serie e circostanziate e che il provvedimento di allontanamento delle due ragazzine – trasferite in una comunità – fosse del tutto illegittimo. E’ basato su una forma di rancore verso la zia delle ragazze, alla quale erano state affidate nel 2018, poiché il giudice tutelare l’aveva ritenuta la scelta idonea per la loro crescita serena: la mamma soffre di disordini psicologici e psichiatrici, il padre non riesce ad occuparsi delle figlie e si è sposato con una donna che, per sua stessa ammissione, era alquanto severa e molto poco amorevole con le bambine. Con la zia invece le ragazzine erano serene, frequentavano la scuola con profitto, praticavano sport.
Poi ad aprile 2021, il tutore e l’assistente sociale avevano deciso di allontanare le bambine senza preavviso, ritenendo eccessivo l’attaccamento della zia verso di loro. “Eccesso di possesso” lo avevano definito. Per toglierle le bimbe avevamo usato uno stratagemma alquanto subdolo, per di più: le sorelline erano infatti convinte di dover incontrare il padre nel corso di un incontro protetto, invece vennero caricate su un veicolo, senza vestiti di ricambio né libri di scuola e nemmeno effetti personali e portate in Casa famiglia, dove erano rimaste un mese, fino a quanto il tribunale aveva revocato l’allontanamento, ritenendo che le bimbe stessero molto meglio con la zia.
E’ sulla base di questo comportamento dei servizi sociali che la zia – assistita dall’avvocato Miraglia – ha sporto una denuncia che ha dato il via alle indagini. Al termine delle quali il gip ha ravvisato che esistano gli estremi per una ragionevole previsione di condanna per i reati di abuso d’ufficio e violenza privata, avendo cagionato un danno ingiusto alle bambine, provate dell’allontanamento dal loro domicilio abituale e dall’affetto della zia. E tutto sulla base di un provvedimento immotivato e illegittimo che i due assistenti sociali avrebbero compiuto solo perché la donna era loro invisa per il suo modo di approcciarsi a loro. Arrivando a effettuare una “macroscopica violazione e falsa applicazione dell’articolo 403 del codice civile” (l’intervento della pubblica autorità a favore dei minori) né necessaria né opportuna, anzi dannosa ed esclusivamente con l’intenzionalità di “procurare volutamente danno ingiusto” alla signora, incuranti di arrecare un trauma alle bambine.
Andranno a processo il Capo sei servizi sociali del comune di Cassino ed un Assistente sociale dello stesso comune.
«È una vittoria amara – dichiara l’avvocato Miraglia – in quanto siamo contenti di questa decisione storica: in molti casi in cui abbiamo denunciato i servizi sociali in tutta Italia per comportamenti analoghi, questa è la prima volta che un giudice arriva all’imputazione cotta per dei reati. D’altro canto siamo però amareggiati in quanto queste situazioni accadono, e succedono molto, troppo spesso. Se questa storia deve insegnare qualcosa, è ad essere di esempio e stimolo a chiunque si senta vittima di una ingiustizia come questa, di andare a denunciarla».

……Siamo in un paese normale?

In data 4 luglio 2023, il Tribunale di Verona collocava un bambino di 6 anni con problemi autistici al padre, con gravi precedenti penali per le difficoltà economiche della madre.
Oggi, il Tribunale Penale di Parma ha condannato lo stesso padre a 2 anni e 8 mesi dii reclusione per maltrattamenti, senza sospensione e a 25.000 euro di provvisionale……. una domanda nasce spontanea, siamo in un paese normale?

Never ending violence against women cildren

AGORA International Journal of Juridical Sciences, http://univagora.ro/jour/index.php/aijjsISSN 1843-570X, E-ISSN 2067-7677Vol. 17, No. 2 (2023), pp. 52-5952NEVER-ENDING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND
CHILDREN
F. MIRAGLIA

Francesco Miraglia National Institute of Family Pedagogy in Rome, Italy & Madrid Forum, SpainE-mail: info@avvocatofrancescomiraglia.itAbstract: This article regards the subject of “secondary victimization”.It regards a judicial term which still appears to be unknown, not only to the public opinionbut also to justice operators; however, it defines a reality of domestic violence andassisted violence which, unfortunately, are still very frequent and dramatically affect thelife of many women and of their children and it consists in blaming the victim of theviolence.Keywords: secondary victimization, victim, violence, phenomenon, cases of minors, foster families, accusation.

INTRODUCTIONSecondary victimization means “victimization which does not happen as a directconsequence of the criminal act, but throughout the response given by institutions andindividuals to the victim” (definition given by the Reccomendation of May 8 of the Council of Europe).The victim becomes a double victim: the first time because of the domestic violence whichshe is subject to, secondarily in a judiciary context since the children are removed fromthe victim who reported the violence in order to safeguard the children involved!This kind of double (or triple?) violence may be taken out through judicial, forensic, andassistential victimization.With a specific regard to the kind of violence that happens in judicial separation, removalof minors, limitation of parental responsibility proceedings, the authorities called torepress violence -probably fail at recognising it or do not give it the due relevance –theyfail to adopt the right measures aimed at safeguarding the victim, and instead underlinethe victim’s responsibility in the violence to which she has been subject to.Underestimating the phenomenon of domestic violence against women has the directeffect of subjecting the victim to secundary victimisation in the context of civil or minorsproceedings. Therefore, acting as a consequence appears necessary, especially in orderto ensure the right to justice and the certainty of the punishment since our legal systemisrequired to prosecute crimes and convict guilty people, not mistake them for thevictims.I am not the only one claiming this, also the Parliamentary Commission of inquiry onfeminicide and on any other form of violence were the main subject of a very importantinquiry regarding secondary victimization on women and on their children, however,barely anyone has ever heard about it(Art. 27, Italian Constituion).So now I’m going to be the one to disclose the Parliamentary Commission Inquiry, alongwith theoutcome of my experience in the field, my thoughts on the subject.Therefore, I hope that with my new book I will be able to contribute, along with doing myjob on a daily basis, in advocating for victims of domestic violence and their children,despiteall of the hurdles that are deliberately imposed to me.

Francesco MIRAGLIA531. The premises of rising violence against women and childrenFor decades I have dealt with cases of minors taken away from their biological mothersvictims of domestic violence, and this happens inthe light of judicial measures thatappear to be questionable, given by reports written by the Social Services and by officialtechnical reports (CTU) which appear to be equally, if not even more questionable(Guidi et al., 2013).The measures have led to the removal of minors not only from the mother and their home,but also from all of their relatives (such as grandparents, aunties and uncles, cousins,older brothers or sisters which appear to be available for their custody) and have led tothe direct consequence of the temporary placement of the minors -which usuallybecomes a permanent placement in special homes or to family units.Sometimes the children are even placed with the father who is accused of violence.. manyof these cases are dramatically known and are still waiting for the final sentence.In the meantime, the unit composed by mother and child, biological or lawful, nowdismembered and dispersed, has been subject to an existential damage which appears tobe irreversible and that can never be compensated on a affective, personal and relationallevel, and last but not least, on an economic level.On this last subject –money, it’s always about money! –foster care outside of thebiological family lead to very high costs and it is public money.It is estimated that a minorplaced in foster care, almost always private ones, costs the Italian State and/or Regionsaround 400 Euros a day, if not even more!(Miraglia, 2023)Foster families are obviously entitled to forms of reimbursement and compensation,holders of a maintenance allowance of more than 6-700 euros per month. Whereas, basedon my experience in the field, I can confidently say that at least 50 or 60% of the removalproceedings have no reason to exist and that minors could indeed, without any kind ofharm, remain placed with their own mother if supported, even economically by the State,Regions, and local authorities. The expenses would surely be lower and the results muchbetter!But why does this happen? One could ask. Why are minors removed from the mother whohas reported a domestic violence, which has often occurred before their own eyes? Itusually happens because women have reported violence episodes taken out by their ex-husband or ex-partner, and for this specific reason are considered as weak andoverprotective of their children, hindering their relationship with the father.An accusation which finds it origin in the fact that the father, even if violent towards themother, has never directly harmed the child and therefore, could be considered a goodfather.Overmore, the mothers are accused of failing in the attempt to protect their children andaccused of not reporting the father of their children before(Miraglia, 2020).Whichever perspective you look at it from, women who are subject to domestic violenceare pointed out and blamed as responsable for the violence and unfit to raise theirchildren, which are taken away without any form of support from the institutions.The consequence is that children, in the name of a right to parenthood, in thethe vast majority of cases only serves to reiterate the ancestral intra-family superiority ofthe male role over the female one (a superiority particularly felt in Italy and which in factrestores the parental power which, even by law, should have been superseded by manyyears), are forced to keep in contact with their violent father, are given shared foster carein their name of double parenthood or, in the majority of cases, taken away from thefather but also removed from the mother because the majority of complaints aboutdomestic violence are not even taken into account.

NEVER ENDING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND CHILDREN54This is confirmed by the judges, magistrates and the Parliamentary Commission Reportinto femicide: 95% of the courts are unable to say in how many cases regardingseparations, divorces, measures regarding children, situations of mistreatment and abuseemerge; and this happens frequently even when the domestic violence is known and verifiedsince almost a third of the cases, the documents regarding the criminal proceedings areacquired by civil proceedings. The complaint filed by the abused mother usually servesto set the perverse mechanism of removal from the family or placement in foster care(Antonocci, 1986).The consequences of secundary victimization affect on the short and long term many ofthe cognitive processes, such as memories, attention span, the ability to elaborateinformations.On a psychological level they can be very severe manifesting in fear if not terror, a senseof helplessness, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress disorder,traumatic stress, social isolation, shame, guilt and loss of trust in other, institutions withthe devastating consequences in the relationship between mother and child, not tomention thedirect consequences that children face on a daily basis.There may also be a long lasting impact on pyhisical health, causing sleeping disorders,heart problems, gastrointestinal disorders and other stress related disorders. Victimsmay also experience challenges in interpersonal relationships and in their ability to leada satisfying lifestyle.These kind of disorders, which if not overcome can lead to spirals of violence, perpetuatesa cycle in which the child who once was victim of violence, becomes himself or herself abearer of the same violence.Let us now look more closely at what this violence is, this triple violence -gender, domestic, assisted -which women and their minor children are still unable to escape or oppose, in many cases becoming victims twice over: once of their executioner, a second time of the decisions taken in the name and on behalf of Italian law.Often in everyday reality, in the family environment, it is difficult, if not impossible, to draw a clear line of demarcation between the three types of violence. In any case, as statistics show, the common element is almost always violence against or through women, and it almost always involves a woman mother.1.1. What is violenceFirst of all, it is good to clarify the terminology because only in this way is it possible to outline the problem and, above all, qualify the crime of which one is a victim in order to act in the most appropriate way in order to protect oneself and free oneself from it. Furthermore, these are definitions, especially those of domestic violence and witnessed violence, which are still little known to the great mass of public opinion. It is often combined with the more well-known “stalking” (or persecutory acts) but, as we will see better later, it is not always the same type of violence and crime and, consequently, the protections and sanctions.It is therefore appropriate, first of all, to recall the definition of violence, as given by the World Health Organization (WHO):“Violence is defined as the intentional use of physical force or power, whether threatened or actual, against oneself, another person, or against a group or community, resulting in or having a high degree of likelihood of resulting in injury, death, psychological damage, poor development or deprivation”(based on Francesco Morcavallo’s speech at the “il Caso Bibbiano” conference organized by Renovatio21 in Cavriago on 4 october 2019).
Francesco MIRAGLIA55The numbers are impressive and we will analyze them in detail below. For now, just think that, according to the report that Save the Children (one of the most important international organizations for the protection of children and adolescents) published in 2011 with the support of CISMAI (Italian Coordination of Services against Child Maltreatment and Abuse), the minors involved as spectators or victims of domestic violence in Italy were around 400 thousand, while ISTAT (Higher Institute of Statistics) counted in over 6 million and 700 thousand women between the ages of 16 and 70 were victims of violence, 690 thousand were those who suffered it at home and had children, and 400 thousand children were present (2015 data). And behind each of these numbers, behind each of these stories there is a small spectator who “will have consequences equal to those of a directly mistreated and abused child”.1.2. Gender violenceThe expression “gender violence” indicates all those forms of violence that affect a large number of people discriminated against on the basis of gender, i.e. sex. It therefore ranges from the psychological and physical to the sexual, from the persecutory acts of stalking up to rape and, as an extreme consequence, feminicide, that is, the murder of the woman as such.Since in the vast majority of cases the victims of gender violence are women (it is no coincidence that, historically, the female gender has been defined as the “weaker sex”), gender violence effectively coincides with violence against women and therefore with the content of the UN Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women. The latter had been preceded by the United Nations WorldConference (Vienna, 14-25 June 1993), in which gender violence (specifically against women) had already been defined as “any act of gender violence involving, or is likely to result in physical, sexual or psychological suffering or any form of suffering to the woman, including threats of such violence, forms of coercion or arbitrary forms of deprivation of personal liberty whether occurring in the context of private life or the public one”.A few months later, on 20 December 1993, with Resolution 48/104, the aforementioned Declaration on the elimination of violence against women was adopted by the General Assembly of the United Nations, albeit without a vote. it contains the recognition of the “urgent need for the universal application to women of the rights and principles relating to equality, security, freedom, integrity and dignity of all human beings”(Manicardi, 2011).The Resolution therefore recalls and embodies the same rights and principles enshrined in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (i.e. the document on the rights of the person, adopted by the United Nations General Assembly in its third session, on 10 December 1948 in Paris with the Resolution 219077A).Articles 1 and 2 of the Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women provide the most widespread definition of violence against women(OHCR, 1993):Article 1: “For the purposes of this Declaration, the term ‘violence against women’ means any act of gender-based violence that causes, or is likely to result in, physical, sexual or psychological harm or suffering to women, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of liberty, whether in public or private life.”Article 2: “Violence against women is defined as including, but not limited to, the following:a. Physical, sexual and psychological violence occurring within the family, including beatings, sexual abuse of female children in the family, dowry violence, marital rape, female
NEVER ENDING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND CHILDREN56genital mutilation and other traditional practices harmful to women, non-marital violence and violence linked to exploitation;b. Physical, sexual and psychological violence that occurs within the community at large, including rape, sexual abuse, sexual harassment and intimidation at work, in educational institutions and elsewhere, trafficking in women and forced prostitution;c. Physical, sexual and psychological violence perpetrated or condoned by the State, wherever it occurs”.Article 3: “Women have the right to the equal enjoyment and protection of all human rights and fundamental freedoms in political, economic, social, cultural, civil or any other fields. These rights include, among other things:a. The right to life;b. The right to equality;c. The right to liberty and security of the person;d. The right to equal protection before the law;e. The right to be free from all forms of discrimination;f. The right to the highest attainable standard of physical and mental health;g. The right to fair and favorable working conditions;h. The right not to be subjected to torture or other cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.”In 1999, as a consequence of the Resolution, the United Nations General Assembly, led by the representative of the Dominican Republic, then designated November 25 of each year as the “International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women”(based on Francesco Miraglia’s speech at the “il Caso Bibbiano” conference organized in Cavriago on 4 October 2019).2. The many faces of gender violenceThe forms and ways in which violence is expressed can also be of various types: -verbal threats of abuse, aggression or torture towards the woman and/or her family, children, friends; -repeated threats of abandonment, divorce, starting another relationship if the woman does not satisfy certain requests; -damage or destruction of the woman’s property; -violence against animals dear to the woman and/or her children. It is important to remember that in moments of anger we can all use provocative, insulting or contemptuous words and we can behave in inappropriate ways but usually followed by remorse and repentance. In psychological violence, however, it is not a momentary outburst of anger but rather a constant and intentional torment with the aim of subjugating the other and maintaining one’s own power and control.” There is no profile of the typical woman who suffers violence. It can involve all women.It takes on manyforms and modalities, although the physical one is the easiest to recognize. Here is a sort of sample.2.1. Physical violence“It includes the use of any act driven by the intention to harm or terrorize the victim. Acts attributable to physical violence are:throwing objects;pushing;slaps;bites, kicks or punches;hit or try to hit with an object;beatings;suffocation;threat with a firearm or knife;use of a firearm or cutting weapon.These forms occur in the crimes of battery, personal injury, private violence, home invasion, kidnapping.”
Francesco MIRAGLIA572.2. Sexual violence“It includes the imposition of unwanted sexual practices or relationships that are physically harmful and harmful to dignity, obtained through threats or blackmail of various kinds.The imposition of an unwanted sexual relationship or intimacy is an act of humiliation, oppression and subjugation, which causes deep psychological as well as physical wounds in the victim.”2.3. Psychological violence“It encompasses every form of abuse that damages the identity of women:-verbal attacks such as derision, verbal harassment, insult, denigration, aimed at convincing the woman that she is “worth nothing”, to better keep her under control;-isolate the woman, distance her from supportive social relationships or prevent her access to economic and non-economic resources, so as to limit her independence;-jealousy and obsessiveness: excessive control, repeated accusations of infidelity and control of his acquaintances2.4. Economic violenceOften such violence is difficult to register as a form of violence because it may seem normal and obvious that the management of family finances is the man’s responsibility. Economic violence is defined as: -limit or deny access to family finances; -hide the family’s patrimonial situation and financial resources; -prohibit, hinder or boycott women’s work outside the home; -not fulfilling the maintenance duties established by law; -exploit women as workforce in the family business or in general without giving any type of remuneration in exchange; -take possession of the woman’s savings or earnings from work and use them to their own advantage; -implement every form of legal protection for the exclusive personal advantage and to the detriment of the woman (for example, the registration of properties); -impose legal commitments by deception, threats or blackmail. This form of direct control, which limits and/or prevents the woman’s economic independence, often does not allow escape from adestructive relationship of mistreatment.” Stalking (Persecutory acts) “It indicates the oppressive behavior carried out by the persecutor towards the victim who rejected him (mainly the ex-partner). Often the stalker’s conduct is subtle, aimed at harassing the victim and placing her in a state of anxiety and awe, with the aim of compromising her serenity, making her feel hunted, and in any case not free(Palmieri, 2021).2.5. Domestic violenceThe most widespread violence, contrary to what is thought even if we have now become aware of the reality of the phenomenon, is that which occurs within the home, or within the family. It consists of a continuous series of different actions but characterized by a common purpose: domination and control by one partner over the other, through psychological, physical, economic and sexual violence.The World Bank recognizes domestic violence as a public health problem, as it seriously affects the psychological and physical well-being of all family members.According to the definition that was given way back in 1996 by the World Health Organization, “domestic or intra-family violence includes every form of physical, psychological or sexual violence and concerns both subjects who have, have had or intend to have an intimate relationship between a couple and individuals who have parental or emotional relationships within a more or less extended family unit”.This definition still seems to us to be the most incisive and
NEVER ENDING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND CHILDREN58extensive because it manages to extend to all the newtypes of interpersonal relationships that in the meantime have emerged, spread and consolidated, profoundly changing the social perception of the concepts of family nucleus, parental relationship, intimate couple and emotional relationship.The mechanismthat best defines the phases of a condition of domestic violence suffered by a woman is called “spiral of violence” or “cycle of violence”, to indicate the ways in which the violent man achieves his goal of subjugating his partner making her feel incapable, weak, helpless, totally dependent on him.The phases of the spiral of violence can present themselves in a crescendo and then “mix”: isolation, intimidation, threats, blackmail of children, physical and sexual assaults often alternate with phases of relative calm and false reconciliations, with the aim of confusing the woman and weaken her further.2.6. Witnessed violenceThis term refers to violence witnessed by minors, that is, a form of child abuseand psychological maltreatment that occurs mainly within the family, in the presence of domestic violence. It is indirect violence, not suffered personally but through violence on other individuals present in the family, usually the mother.Minors may bedirectly exposed to violence or abuse when it occurs in their presence or may have indirect knowledge of it when someone, voluntarily or unconsciously, informs them about it; or, again, they can perceive its effects when they feel sadness, terror, anguishand a continuous state of alert of the victim or when they see bruises, wounds, torn clothes, tears, broken furnishings, etc.Minor victims of witnessed violence are invisible: invisible to the mother, who no longer has resources, and invisible to society, which barely recognizes them. They see, unseen, a daily climate of shame masked behind the appearance of normality.Their involvement in domestic violence can occur not only during the parents’ cohabitation, but also during the separation phase and after the separation itself. These last two phases are particularly at risk due to their involvement by the violent father/partner, who can use the children as a tool to reiterate the mistreatment of the mother and to continue to control her. Furthermore, in these phases the risk of escalation of violence and the possibility of a lethal outcome (murder of the mother, multiple homicides, murder-suicide) increases.The dynamics of domestic violence obviously interfere with the relationship with children, altering the expression of the parental functions of the maltreating mother and father and the attachment models(Vita et al., 2023).CONCLUSIONSSo, what conclusions should be drawn? What kind of advice should be given to women and mothers victims of domestic violence by the hand of their husband or partner? Don’t file a complaint because it will just get worse? Because, reporting will only add to the punishment of seeing your child removed from you.In the meantime, every taxpayer continues to pay in order to support a system based on a double form of suffering, which also leads to the death of the woman and mother, in a femicide

hatched in the complicit silence of the insititutions since it holds a woman prisoner in a house where she continues to suffer until the final explosion. Does that seem fair to you? (Palmieri et al., 2021)
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